LIFE YOUR OWN LIFE

There is always more to the story.....
That line in life is true in so many different ways... We have all said or done something that we wish we could do over right?
funny thing is I have always told people that I have no regrets but the truth is I have lots but I call them learning experiences (Madonna thought me that) yes we are have regrets ... it may be we did not travel, you gained weight, should of saved more, spent more time with a love one before it was too late..... This is called life and as people would say we only have one!
But do we? .... I don’t think that is correct at all, see if you think in that mind frame of only one life and you don’t have a good one you put yourself out in the word for disappointment this is not your fault …. And only you can change it! RIGHT
Now if you have a good life that hey what the hell – you love life and want nothing to ever be changed right?
So what if you never get a chance to be your own person or make decisions based on what other people want you to do? Or you make it on your own as a way to be free ………..
Question: Who is the boss of you?
Answer: YOU!
But let’s say that you were brought up in a life that put the weight of the world on you and everyone wanted you to be the adult ….. You grow up fast, you take on way to much, and when you see an opportunity to let it out it becomes an addiction. That is why Face book is such an addiction to most people it is a way for … People who got married young to feel sexy , Hot , Flirt, in control and most of all to live there life without hurting the people that expect too much from them …. See it is hard to hurt someone that you don’t know and can never disappoint and you can share your personal details with and they don’t have an option because they one know what you want them to. And that way they can never set you up to disappoint you and if they leave you well who cares there is always that buddy request at a different table!
So let’s say you get married young and you never get to live you twenties having fun , getting drunk ,sex with a hot guy after one date , never getting to know what you like in bed or partying unit the sun comes up, going away with girlfriends , ( this makes me sad) I have done them all and way more LOL . I did them because I believed that when I’m 30-40-50-60 I want to know that I had fun!
And when I meet the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with I would know because I kissed way too many frogs …. And guess what I did! And that is the one part of my life that I have no regrets and I’m glad I did not meet him sooner BECAUSE I WAS NOT READY ! ME YES IT IS ALL ABOUT ME! AND THAT IS THE WAY IT SHOULD BE FOR EVEYONE. Look we fight hard, we stress hard, but we love even harder that is something he thought me – the old me would of ran ….. But if you never fall down you will never make it back up and Face book is not the answer my suggestion is make a life list you know like a bucket list …
Exp
1. Party till I puke
2. Do something that I would never do ( jump out of a plain)
3. Go to Miami for spring break – who cares if you’re in your thirties party hard everyone is drunk
4. Make love for 9-10 hours
5. Some a joint and watch porn!
6. Dance around the house naked with all the blinds open.
I know you think I’m nuts but try it …… I believe that you should never say NO try log off of face book and live your live …. I think we should all PARTY LIKE A ROCK STAR AND POUND LIKE A PORN STAR!
ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT ….. WHAT IS STOPPING YOU … WE ARE NOT OUR PARENTS!!!!
AND THE WORLD WILL LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE